When it comes to lighting up a fire in your bedroom, you will need 90% connection and 10% skills. This is because for you to give your partner mind-blowing sex, you will first need to read your partner, from moment to moment. Here are ways you can lighten up your sex life so that the passion and pleasure in your bedroom can soar up.
First of all, before you have a great sex with your partner, you should create time and space first. No matter how busy you are, you should always ensure that you create time to fuck each other’s brains out. It should be at least twice a week. Whenever you want to get down to business, ensure that all the cell phones are turned off. Any form of distraction like TVs and laptops should be taken away from the bedroom.
Take Things Slow
For you to transition from your daily personalities to your sexy personalities, you will need to slow things down. This will give you all the time you need so you can get everything out of your heads. Stare at your partner and get drunk in the deliciousness of looking at your partner. Use your gentle hands to wake up all the nerve endings on your partner’s body. Bring your foreheads together and kiss each other gently and passionately.
Foreplay should be the main course while sex should be the appetizer. However, most people usually think otherwise and this short-changes the value of foreplay. By extending foreplay, you will be able to tease your partner’s erogenous zones and blow their mind. You should nibble on your partner’s neck, kiss their beautiful torsos. You can also give your partner some massage by rubbing their foot and back.
Most women usually complain that they don’t enjoy sex when their partners are quiet. It is therefore good to be vocal while fucking your partner. You can moan or say sweet nothings as you make love to your partner. By talking and moaning, you will feel more uninhibited and your partner will feel sexier.
Sex should never be sterile. You should be messy if you want to enjoy it. Don’t be afraid of exchanging bodily fluids…saliva, sperm, lubrication, and sweat. You can even pull your partner’s hair and make your bed a massacre. It’s all about destroying each other. Get messy and blow your partner’s mind off.